Anonymous said: Do ENFJs relate more to ESFJs or ENTJs? And which type do you think you get worst along with?

lorddragonwind:

enfjpuppettheatre:

ENTJs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, maybe we don’t relate to them in terms of their evil overlord tendencies, but we certainly empathize with them more, and go along with their crazy schemes. ENTJs = buddies for life.

ESFJs… drive me a little crazy. I admire lots of things about them, but would rather do it from a distance. They get shit done, but I find their manner a little callous. Especially when they feel threatened. The S/N swap is a hard one to swallow.

Disclaimer: THAT’S JUST ME, THOUGH.

well as an ENTJ I love the ideas of pulling strings in a puppet theatre..;-)

that said I tend to get along more easily with both NFs and NTs We seem to speak the same language which is N..and there can be less friction if they are also J and E because we understand each other. The main advantage of being with an I is they let the E take center stage socially and dont try to compete. But I types want to to concentrate intensely on them which is hard for an E type to do in my experience unless we re very relaxed and late at night.

What the evil overlord ENTJ said.

As a point of interest, for interested parties… “HOW TO TELL THE BLOGGER IS AN ENTJ”.

1. username: “Lord” (100 points) “Dragon” (80 points)
2. THE SMILEY FACE HAS A NOSE. IT’S A THING. (500 points)
3. smiley face: winking (50 points)
4. well laid out, logical points (50 points)
5. vaguely threatening/friendly banter (100 points)

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Anonymous said: Do ENFJs relate more to ESFJs or ENTJs? And which type do you think you get worst along with?

ENTJs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, maybe we don’t relate to them in terms of their evil overlord tendencies, but we certainly empathize with them more, and go along with their crazy schemes. ENTJs = buddies for life.

ESFJs… drive me a little crazy. I admire lots of things about them, but would rather do it from a distance. They get shit done, but I find their manner a little callous. Especially when they feel threatened. The S/N swap is a hard one to swallow.

Disclaimer: THAT’S JUST ME, THOUGH.

Louis Tomlinson

mbti-sorted:

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I submit for facial comparison reasons, Louis the ESTP.

Also, neither here nor there, but I think Louis would enjoy Bollywood dancing.

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anonymous said: What do ENFJs honestly think of INTPs?

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Anonymous said: I am an ENFJ but everybody that I ask thinks I'm an introvert. Is that common for ENFJ's or is it just me? And how do you know the full on difference? (Sorry so many questions) but to be more specific I guess you could say I'm an Introvert until I can fully trust you.

In the words of someone much smarter than me:

The terms Extravert and Introvert are used in a different sense when discussing the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Here Extravert and Introvert refer to where people focus their attention in order to get their energy – either the OUTER or INNER world. This innate and inborn preference has an important role in personality development and plays an important part in determing a person’s dominant function.

Or, like, I always thought I was an Introvert (I grew up in a family with FIVE INTROVERTS so a lot of my learned behaviour screamed introvert!) but it didn’t come to a shock to my sisters when I was an extravert. Mostly because they had put up with the following for the entirety of my childhood & youth:

INFP: *Reading a book*
ENFJ: PLAY WITH MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. I’M BORED.
INTJ: *in a comfy chair, absorbed by the internet*
ENFJ: LETS GO RUNNING. YES, YES, YES.
INFJ: *curled up in bed, or behind bed, or on the sofa*
ENFJ: HI, HI, HI. WILL YOU RUB MY BACK???????

Upon reflection, I’m actually the worst.

(Even as an adult, a lot of my behaviour is superficially more I than E around most people - however this is not me as happy, self-actualizing me… there’s a spectrum of behaviour, it’s not always clear cut… hope that helps!).

Anonymous said: Would you do one of an ENFJ and an INFP AS BEST FRIENDS? (Both females) The reason I'm asking you this is because I'm an ENFJ and my best friend is an INFP. XP I'm just curious as to what you think our relationship would look like.

It would sounds like what happens when mbti-sorted and I are together.

ENFJ: HI, I’m here to initiate human contact. Whatcha doing?
INFP: The thing. Did you see the thing in fandom where-
ENFJ: I SAW THE THING. DID YOU SEE THAT OTHER THING-
INFP: That reminds of this thing in that other fandom where-
ENFJ: I don’t know that thing. Or that fandom. I was outside doing something with other people and I don’t have time for that fandom’s things.
INFP: OH, OK, WELL, SO this thing that relates to that idea.
ENFJ: I KNOW THAT IDEA. HAVE YOU EVER-
INFP: Yes.

Chelsea Clinton

mbti-sorted:

Unsure about Chelsea Clinton. I have an ENFJ and an INFJ sister who are both refusing to claim her. It’s a pretty epic argument. I’ll let you guys know what happens. I think probably she’s an INFJ.

Also had to change over Charles Schulz, and probably Stéphane Dion as well.  What did I say about typing from memory.  Eeee.

Signal Boost! Help my conflicted sister fulfill her dreams and mbti-type the mysterious Chelsea Clinton. What do you think?

anonymous said: What do ENFJs honestly think of INTPs?

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anonymous said: What do ENFJs honestly think of INTPs?

anonymous said: What do ENFJs honestly think of INTPs?

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anonymous said: What do ENFJs honestly think of INTPs?

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Anonymous said: What do ENFJs honestly think of INTPs?

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I’M KIDDING.

But this might be my favourite new game.

ENFJ, ISFP: Another Tragically True Story

ENFJ: I am very, very swamped. Will you help me? PLEASE?
ISFP: Oh, yeah. Sure. Totally. Normally I would cut and run at your tone of urgency, but you are actually in waaaaaaaay over your head. So I can help.
ENFJ: Great, thanks, you’re the best.
ISFP: What do you need me to do?
ENFJ: Fill the holes in the gallery walls with spackle before I sand & paint?
ISFP: Okay, cool. Absolutely.

*two hours later, the walls are covered in splotches of drywall filler*

ENFJ: How’s it going?
ISFP: Look right there, I spelled “LOVE”.

Anonymous said: i'm confused with my personality type. although i always get entp when i take different tests, i feel like there is a possibility for me to be enfp or estp bc they're kind of similar. any strong differences between the three? or perhaps you could even do a roleplay between the three haha i would love that. thanks x

Alfred the Bear is here to help you with your confusion.

1. Alfred cuts in front of you, in line at the grocery store. He is then smushed by a giant piano dropping out of the sky. Is your reaction:

a) omfg, that could have been MEEE under that piano.
b) this is a great anecdote. look at how far his stuffing landed!!!
c) bitch please, that bear had it coming the second he cut in line.

2. Alfred wants to make dinner for his lady friend. He should:

a) make something that is emotionally resonant and meaningful for his lady friend, to show her that he listens and can be thoughtful. and put some flowers from the garden on the table, too.
b) try something adventurous that may ultimately fail, but hey, that’s what take-out menus are for! pizza party on the couch!
c) make something elaborate to impress, but give it a test run the day before.

3. Alfred plays basketball. He is the guy who:

a) shows up casually to have fun, but is really pretty good. also, GO TEAM!
b) is kind of uncoordinated but is really into the mechanics and theory of the game. so into it.
c) plays every position. scores all the goals. takes no prisoners.

If you answered:

a) congrats, you are an ENFP!
b) ENTP - go tell a bad joke :)
c) ESTP, woo! winning!

Real talk - ENFPs and ENTPs can be confusing. ENTPs are slightly more dorktastic, though they’re both pretty silly :) ENFPs are more leaders of people, for the sake of nurturing well-rounded people, whereas ENTPs are specialists/dreamers in their area of expertise who happen to draw others to them because of aforementioned specialty.

Hope that helps a little! MBTI-ing yourself can be tricky… tests aren’t always helpful - I failed them a few times, myself (can you fail an MBTI test? YES, I DID, SO HARD. SO OFTEN. I AM NOT AN INTJ!!!). Someone had to label me as an ENFJ before I was like OH, YEAH, OK. And then proceeded to test as one from then on out.

Hiiiii so, not as Harry Styles, just as me, Ruth, I have a question for you, because it seems like you know a lot, so, I’m an INFP, sometimes INFJ, usually depending on how stressed out with school projects and tests and things like that I am, but, anyway, most of my real life and celebrity crushes have turned out to be ENFJ, which I have learned is my most compatible type, and, in real life, and celebrity, those people have not only been HIGHLY enigmatic to me in their personality, but also extremely physically attractive… Is that a super common thing, that your most compatible type is also the one you find most physically attractive, because I swear, its like it happens EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Which isn’t a bad thing I guess, but, idk, seems kind of.. weird.. spooky might even be where I would be going so far as to say… And idk, I always feel this sort of liberation to say exactly how I feel to ENFJ, like, I can just be myself, and not worry that they’ll have no idea what I’m saying, if that makes sense (which I guess would be me worrying about what I’m saying, BUT IGNORE THAT..). Okay, so yeah…. I guess that’s all that I have to say…

And because I am a ravenous teenage girl, what would you type the members of One Direction as, if you know anything about them… At all. Thanks! <3

— giantflop

Hi, Ruth! I’m not an MBTI expert, or psychologist or anything (I just have a virtual puppet theatre! That and $1.95 will get me a cup of coffee…), so take everything I say with a grain of salt. I’m also not sure what science or sorcery they use to decide that two MBTI types are “most compatible”.  I’d like to think that most types, given happy & healthy individuals, could co-exist in a great relationship.

Having said that… yes, omg. ENFJ/INFPs have the ESPN.  In my experience, the INFPs usually end up pursuing ISFP or ISFJ types. Mostly because ENFJs and INFPs can not collectively get their shit together. Here’s my advice, kids: USE YOUR WORDS. It can be awful, and hard and nauseating. But the alternative is mixed signals, and pining, and trying to will something into existence. Not a lot of fun. Unless you like tortured romance, which we kind of do. Yikes.

But yeah, I can look at an INFP and know what they’re thinking. They can do the same with me. It’s nice to have people who are like “Yeah, you ARE kind of a weirdo. But whatever, dance party!!!” As far as physical attraction – what you’re saying makes sense to me.  Finding someone attractive, and who they are, that’s all inherently connected, right? I have a hard time separating a person from their physical appearance. Maybe that’s a NF-type thing?

In conclusion: ONE DIRECTION. I AM NOT A TEENAGE GIRL, BUT I AM SO HERE FOR THAT. As far as I can tell-

Louis – ESTP
Liam – ISFJ
Harry – ISFP
Niall – ESFP
Zayn – ISFP

So many S-types. So many feeeeeelings. Poor Liam.